Yes, it's true. Mary called to tell us we are meeting "Jenny" (not her real name) on Friday at 6:00pm. This Friday. Are we nervous? Yes. I told Sean that the other adoptive couple is meeting her at 7:00 on Friday. That's a joke...I don't actually know what time or when they meet her. I hope they drop out of the race actually. I can't even believe this. I mean, I knew it was coming but I guess I didn't realize how it would feel knowing the appointment was set. She must be so nervous. And it's funny to think she might be thinking about us right now as we are thinking of her. I asked Mary if it would be okay to bring her flowers and give her a hug. It just seems so impersonal to shake her hand knowing that she is carrying a baby that could potentially come and live with us. Mary thinks it's a fabulous idea. Gosh, I hope Mary can come along with us. She said she might not be able to considering it's late at night. Poor Mary hits the hay early I guess.
We have to choose outfits. Mary said casual is key so I plan to wear jeans. I just wish those shoes I ordered from Neiman's weren't on back order. I know Sean is stressing about what to wear too.
We are just taking deep breaths...some good advice from our friend Linda. I start getting carried away with all the details and I have to remind myself to stop and breathe and think clearly. It just amazes me to know we started all of this back in November not even thinking we would meet a birthmother as early as April. I feel like a tornado came in and dropped us here. Everyone: cross your fingers and wish us luck! We have to win Jenny over. Who am I kidding...I will post at least another two messages before 6:00 on Friday. My nerves will be shot by then.
XOXO
Sean and Des
Picture: Des and Goddaughter Madeline (Jess and Mike's daughter) - pretty soon I will be holding a meatball of our own!!!
5 comments:
HOLY SHIT BALLS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(I had to say it! Sorry Mrs. Hanson!)
Sean and Des,
Just be yourselves and bring all that love and caring that is you as a couple and prospective parents. Lots and Luck and love from grandma and grandpa to be!!!!!
love
mom
At a loss of words to write, BUT can say that we are soooooo EXCITED!!!!!! Mike and I both agree that you guys have nothing to worry about b/c this girl (Jenny??) is going to be so RELIEVED when she meets the both of you and sees what genuinely good people you both are.
We will be thinking of you and sending lots of luck your way.
Jess & MIke
We are so happy for you both! What's there to worry about? You are both WONDERFUL individuals---how can she not love you?! We'll be thinking of you tomorrow and can't wait to hear how it went!
Love you both---
Janet
Des,
You don't need luck. You are simply gorgeous individuals, inside and out, and she is going to be so excited that her baby is going to be supported and loved by such genuine, funny, and thoughtful people. Pretty soon you will bring the baby home and read her the children's book "Guess How Much I Love You?" but the baby will already know!
Love,
Erin and Andy
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